Welcome to our blog. We (Kim and Terri) are happily married (in one state, anyway) lesbians with 3 daughters. This blog is to keep track of our journey to become as legally married as we can, whether that means getting married in one state at a time (we already are in Iowa) or "civil unioned" or whatever, we are going to try to document everything that we are going thru in order to try to get anywhere close to the same standing as a married straight couple has.